Sunday December 30th, 2007
Last night at a wedding, we sat next to the dance floor as the father and daughter took their first dance. In the past, when I have witnessed this, I’ve been reminded of my own father and my own wedding and my own closeness with him.
But yesterday evening, when they danced, and Chad looked over at me, no words were needed. I began to tear and so did he, as we both looked forward across the next 20 years. We saw him there dancing with our girls. We saw our own labors and triumphs raising daughters; we saw our own girls as women saying goodbye to their daddy.
It was enough to make us hold each other closely as we took the dance floor with the other couples a few songs later. It was enough to make us whisper and let the rest of the party blur as we talked about our own journey. It was enough to make us wonder what the next two decades hold and who will win the hearts of own our little girls someday. 
What a wonderful moment. We think the same thing, just on the flip side. You both look so fancy & fabulous!
That’s a great picture of you and Chad. I have one daughter who is married and it is a bittersweet time. It’s what you hope and pray for but it’s hard to see them take that step away. I was afraid I was going to be crying at the wedding but it was great and I enjoyed it!
Beautiful picture of you and Chad – you guys look great!
As soon as I saw the first line of your post, I knew it was going to pull on the heart strings.
We have had those moments about our kids too, especially since the years seem to be flying by. It will be hard to let go but know that they are in His hands and He is watching over them.
I, too, am in the same position, with two daughters to raise. Seeing them gain some independence in certain areas is both wonderful and difficult all at the same time. I pray God will be gracious to you, and let you feel more joy than sorrow as the years progress!
Happy New Year, Sarah!
~ Leah
What a beautiful picture of you two.
I know exactly what you mean.
it’s going by so fast. it’s so beautiful and scary and exciting. i love you guys!!
Beautiful post. Beautiful thoughts. Beautiful picture!!!
I have been reminded often lately of just how short this time is. And just how special. Thank you for putting it into such a sweet perspective.
I hope that you and your family had a wonderful Christmas. I haven’t been responding, but I have been enjoying checking in and reading your posts during these busy days. Your outlook is just so refreshing.
Happy New Year, Sarah!!