…are bloggers.
Yes, it’s true. And for me over the past two years, so much of my community has been found here on the Internet. It’s hard to explain to people who’ve never fallen in friendship love with someone online. Why I would spend hundreds of dollars in plane fare to visit her or her; why I would let her stay in my house for 3 weeks while we were out of the country, or why I would share my deepest secrets with her or her?
They are some of my best friends in the world and they are spread out all over the globe.
So while I’m hiding out with my husband (in some undisclosed location – wink) for the next 36 hours, here are some of my favorite Internet loves and friends. I hope you find a new friend today, too.
Start here: if you’ve never read my story. Start with that.
Cindy Beall (the goddess of Oklahoma) has an amazing testimony of God’s faithfulness and grace in the face of her own husband’s infidelity. She’s beautiful and (did I already say amazing?) amazing and I can’t wait to hug her very very very soon.
Mandy Thomson (coolest girl drummer in Boston) is a Georgia transplant who is about ready to move home. Mandy will make you laugh and then let you listen to her latest song right there on her blog. Last fall Chad and I visited her and Drew for the longest double date of any of our lives. I’ve never laughed so hard or had so much fun in a graveyard, ever.
Annie (well, we’re just going to call her Annie Blogs) is the funniest person I’ve met (not including my own husband). I call her first for everything writing-related and can just say, “hi” and pick up from where we left off the last time. She loves my kids and she graciously tolerated my cat for 3 weeks last spring when she stayed in our house while we were gone. She’s the kind of writer I want to be like when I grow up (and maybe I can live in Nashville too, like her).
Along with Annie and myself, Melodee and Linda make up the Hermonistas. We met two years ago at Mount Hermon Writers Conference and have been the best of writing friends ever since. They’ve torn apart my writing (in good ways) and have been both excited and disappointed for me at appropriate times. Mel lives in Seattle and Linda lives about 5 miles from my but I’ve never been more thankful for a group of women. (By the way, anyone out there going to Mount Hermon this year?)
Lisa Leonard (Internet jewelry maven) has been my best real life friend since college. She taught me how to blow dry curly hair (even though mine is straight), to drink hot tea without letting the loose leaves free in the cup, and how to be a good friend. Lisa has an amazing jewelry business and blog. If you’ve never seen her work, go visit now and buy something!
Alece (aka Grit and Glory) is someone that I admire maybe more than anyone right now. She’s been sharing her story the past several days. She’s home in the States for awhile before she returns to her ministry in South Africa sometime in the future. You will love her as much as I do, I know it.
Denise and Kristen (from California and Idaho respectively) are two of my favorite girls. Both homeschooling moms (a reason alone for earning the title of HERO in my book) the three of us spent a (short) few days together in May. I love them. Simply that. If I could live next door to anyone in the world, it would be them.
Elizabeth Esther is worthy of all honor because she has FIVE amazing kids and seems to keep it all together too. And…she’s writing a book. She lives close by so I call her on a whim to meet me at the park or she calls me on a whim to meet her at Starbucks. It works out less than we’d like, but when it does, it’s all laughter and misadventure. (Well, not really the misadventure. It just sounded good).
There are so many more. Visit my blogroll to see some of the girls (and guys) I read when I get a chance to read blogs.
Let me know if you’ve found a new “friend” today!
Tags: bloggers, Blogroll, Cindy Beall, community, Denise Jones, Elizabeth Esther, friends, Kristen Cheney, Linda Vujnov, links, Lisa Leonard, Mandy Thompson, Melodee Helms, Mount Hermon
I so totally relate to having bloggy buddies and non-bloggy people not understanding the relationship. I have not had the honor of meeting any of my bloggy buddies but it is a goal of mine.
Enjoy your time away with your hubby!
smooches,
Larie
you write such sweet stuff!
love,
dad
You made me blush! ((hugs)) Thank you, sweet friend. I’m sorta amazed that someone as fun and open, honest and sharing lives so close to me! Usually my besties live far, far away. So, thank you for your friendship.
XO
EE
p.s. have fun on your secret hideaway weekend!
Cindy, your Oklahoma goddess, and I went to school together in Georgetown, Texas. She is an amazing person and one of my funnest friends. You are going to have a GREAT time with her. I found your blog through her and I enjoy reading your stuff everyday. You are so honest and “real”. Thank you for just being “you”.
you are so wonderful to me. thank you, friend.
i don’t even have words for how much i respect and admire you. your transparency in your own journey has given me courage to be transparent in mine.
This made my day. I love you. (And your family. And your parents. And SoCal. And yes, even the cat.)
you are sweet. i’m honored to be your friend, and would love to live next door to you.
have fun on your get-away
I made my first friend on the internet when I was in 7th grade. She was in 7th grade too, a thousand miles away. We have been friends for 10 years, and we met for the first time this summer in Chicago when we were both visiting other people. It was surreal.
My very best friend I met online sometime in high school. We met and things went well, but we didn’t get super close until a little while after that. Now we visit each other every few months (a 5-ish hour drive away) when our schedule allows, and I totally can’t imagine life without her.
It’s crazy how God brings people together, isn’t it? I wouldn’t trade these friends for hundreds in my town.
Thanks for the introduction to some of your favorite online friends! Some of them, I’d already met but the others I’ll be checking out soon!
I know that it’s completely and totally possible to find true friendship with someone with whom you have done nothing more than interact via the internet. When it happens, it’s really a gift.
Hope you’re having a great time, hiding out with Chad!
My hubby just said to me last night, “hey, you should get together with your blog friends.” my response was “honey, my blog friends are in Alabama, Tennessee, Detroit, Indiana, Georgia…”.The internet is amazing because I just think about all of the amazing women I have gotten to know through their blogs. Gals I have never met and may never meet in person but I could not imagine a day without seeing what they are up to or being encouraged by them. Thanks for sharing your friends with us. I met Annie Blogs in TN at a Lifework 2.0 conference. We spent about 5 hours together and she was so approachable and friendly. I love gals like her that want to be friends even though you just met. Plus her blog is funny and real.
I’ve met two of those ladies and I heart them to the moon. They are my heart friends and I am thankful every single day because I am better for knowing them…and you for that matter. Thank you!
you are so sweet! this made me all teary eyed. i love you and miss you friend. i am thankful for the internet for bringing you into my life
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I’ve thought about Mt. Hermon. I’d love to go if I can afford it! Would love to meet you too.
Let me know of you decide to go! I’ll be sure and look for you
Oh, I made the list! Just found it tonight . . . how’d I miss this?
You were a little strange about that graveyard!
How in the WORLD did I miss this post???
Love you!! So thankful to be one of your friends. Really, Sarah.