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		<title>By: Garages</title>
		<link>http://www.sarahmarkley.com/2009/12/temptation-is-a-friendly-old-lady/comment-page-1/#comment-39581</link>
		<dc:creator>Garages</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jul 2011 16:32:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Steel Barns and Garages delivered and setup on</description>
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		<title>By: agtsmo159</title>
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		<dc:creator>agtsmo159</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jul 2011 09:05:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Soon thereafter the first man prayed for a house, clothes and more food. The next day, like magic, all of these things were given to him. However, the second man still had nothing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Soon thereafter the first man prayed for a house, clothes and more food. The next day, like magic, all of these things were given to him. However, the second man still had nothing.</p>
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		<title>By: Borla Exhaust</title>
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		<dc:creator>Borla Exhaust</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 May 2011 22:52:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Why can&#039;t more writers come up with fresh content like you have in this article.  You are a true thinker with a lot of vision.  I share your unique thoughts.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Why can&#8217;t more writers come up with fresh content like you have in this article.  You are a true thinker with a lot of vision.  I share your unique thoughts.</p>
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		<title>By: Big News Here at The Mom Crowd &#124; Parenting by Eliot Rosewater: The Baby Years</title>
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		<dc:creator>Big News Here at The Mom Crowd &#124; Parenting by Eliot Rosewater: The Baby Years</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jan 2010 02:17:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] posts on Facebook and Twitter. Sarah posts sometimes say what I am thinking. She wrote her post about temptation and marriage around the same time I wrote my post on the same [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] posts on Facebook and Twitter. Sarah posts sometimes say what I am thinking. She wrote her post about temptation and marriage around the same time I wrote my post on the same [...]</p>
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		<title>By: The Mom Crowd &#187; Big News Here at The Mom Crowd</title>
		<link>http://www.sarahmarkley.com/2009/12/temptation-is-a-friendly-old-lady/comment-page-1/#comment-11590</link>
		<dc:creator>The Mom Crowd &#187; Big News Here at The Mom Crowd</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Dec 2009 06:36:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] posts on Facebook and Twitter. Sarah posts sometimes say what I am thinking. She wrote her post about temptation and marriage around the same time I wrote my post on the same [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] posts on Facebook and Twitter. Sarah posts sometimes say what I am thinking. She wrote her post about temptation and marriage around the same time I wrote my post on the same [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Cindy Beall</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cindy Beall</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Dec 2009 17:04:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Not a prude.  If we all were more intentional and aware that WE ARE ALL CAPABLE OF COMMITTING ADULTERY we would do these things.  But we don&#039;t all think that.  We think, &quot;I&#039;d never do that.&quot;

But we do it.

But for the grace of God go I.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Not a prude.  If we all were more intentional and aware that WE ARE ALL CAPABLE OF COMMITTING ADULTERY we would do these things.  But we don&#8217;t all think that.  We think, &#8220;I&#8217;d never do that.&#8221;</p>
<p>But we do it.</p>
<p>But for the grace of God go I.</p>
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		<title>By: Emily</title>
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		<dc:creator>Emily</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Dec 2009 20:25:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is a beautiful post. I&#039;m a bit younger than you (25) but have been married for four years and have one little baby and another on the way.  One of the things I cherish about my marriage and my husband is his wisdom in safeguarding our marriage.

Too many of those we know have relationships that are what we would deem as a little too open in the friends-of-the-opposite-gender category.  My hubby makes comments to me from time to time about his friends who he sees having friendships with women and they always include some form of gratitude about the fact that he knows I would never even let him get to that place with another woman.

I cherish your blog posts on this topic as they always match my heart so closely - a match that is often hard to find.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a beautiful post. I&#8217;m a bit younger than you (25) but have been married for four years and have one little baby and another on the way.  One of the things I cherish about my marriage and my husband is his wisdom in safeguarding our marriage.</p>
<p>Too many of those we know have relationships that are what we would deem as a little too open in the friends-of-the-opposite-gender category.  My hubby makes comments to me from time to time about his friends who he sees having friendships with women and they always include some form of gratitude about the fact that he knows I would never even let him get to that place with another woman.</p>
<p>I cherish your blog posts on this topic as they always match my heart so closely &#8211; a match that is often hard to find.</p>
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		<title>By: alece</title>
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		<dc:creator>alece</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Dec 2009 00:33:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>you are wise, my friend, not prude. 

and i&#039;m stoked that i won! ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>you are wise, my friend, not prude. </p>
<p>and i&#8217;m stoked that i won! <img src='http://www.sarahmarkley.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Heidi S</title>
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		<dc:creator>Heidi S</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Dec 2009 18:55:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That makes a lot of sense, Sarah! 

Like Michelle expressed in her comment, I have also struggled with trying to find the balance.  A few years ago, people used to take my friendly behavior for flirtation.  Flirtation WAS NOT my intention so I majorly worked on that area to the point where I became very stand-offish and UNfriendly towards men.  that wasn&#039;t good either.  The past year I have been trying to find my balance and I think I&#039;m getting there.  You did a great job of describing it!  :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That makes a lot of sense, Sarah! </p>
<p>Like Michelle expressed in her comment, I have also struggled with trying to find the balance.  A few years ago, people used to take my friendly behavior for flirtation.  Flirtation WAS NOT my intention so I majorly worked on that area to the point where I became very stand-offish and UNfriendly towards men.  that wasn&#8217;t good either.  The past year I have been trying to find my balance and I think I&#8217;m getting there.  You did a great job of describing it!  <img src='http://www.sarahmarkley.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Jessica</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jessica</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Dec 2009 15:07:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great Post! 

I agree with you 100%. I do the same thing. I try to not even look certain men in the eye because for some reason it makes ME so uncomfortable. I don&#039;t want them to look back. You know? 

I like being friendly. I like making others feel welcome and comfortable. I have to guard that so closely now. I don&#039;t ever want to make my husband think that I am &quot;more interested&quot; in someone of the opposite sex than just a passing hello.

It&#039;s tough to balance and knowing your own limitations is so important! It&#039;s nice to hear this from someone else. I feel like at times I&#039;m almost rude but I think people understand. 

Merry Christmas!
Jessica</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great Post! </p>
<p>I agree with you 100%. I do the same thing. I try to not even look certain men in the eye because for some reason it makes ME so uncomfortable. I don&#8217;t want them to look back. You know? </p>
<p>I like being friendly. I like making others feel welcome and comfortable. I have to guard that so closely now. I don&#8217;t ever want to make my husband think that I am &#8220;more interested&#8221; in someone of the opposite sex than just a passing hello.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s tough to balance and knowing your own limitations is so important! It&#8217;s nice to hear this from someone else. I feel like at times I&#8217;m almost rude but I think people understand. </p>
<p>Merry Christmas!<br />
Jessica</p>
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