YOUR Beauty

UPDATE! I’ve added a few more at the end so be sure to check them!

About 9 days ago I invited you to participate in a challenge. I asked you to write about beauty.  A lot of you took it, and can I say I had an amazing time getting to know so many of you even more.

This is YOUR beauty.

Grab your cuppa this morning and and prepare for some great reading. Go and leave some comments on these ladies’ posts.

I love what she says: “…I am full of beauty that is distinctly my own, and I try to radiate that into the lives of others with the love I show them.”

Stacey writes: “I want to see beauty as a feature of the heart and not just the body.”

She asks, “...shouldn’t the opinion of the Grand Designer be taken as the final opinion on what’s truly beautiful?

I love what she says at the end: “…As [God] chisels away all the junk, His true masterpiece is sure to emerge

Jen writes: “To see anything, anyone, as not beautiful, is to condemn them, and I don’t think that’s how it’s meant to be.”

Traci encourages, “Without being beautiful on the inside, we can’t fool anyone (at least not for too long) on our outward appearance.”

  • Jennifer from Studio JRU: Beauty

She posts a photo and talks about “unfading beauty“.

She writes, “I think a true friend, one that loves you and wants the best for you is beauty defined.

  • Shannon at Min’s Musings: Beauty

Shannon writes, “I know in my head the world’s standards and the Lord’s standards. It’s just a struggle when it comes to resting the truth in my heart.”

  • Kim at Happenings of the Drama Mama: Beauty

She talks about high school and shares, “I thought that being beautiful meant that you were in the “in” crowd and had a boyfriend so since I did not have any of that I was not cute.”

Heidi writes about poise: “For it is here that you come to identify the real beauty of your strength; the real key to your strength and power.”

She says about her journey, “When I looked at myself in the mirror, I saw plain.”

  • Terri Lynne at Mommy to Brooke: Beauty

She writes, “I think showing the beauty of Christ far outweighs any worldly beauty

  • Mandy from Brokenness to Beauty: Beauty

Mandy says, “[God] makes no mistakes – and even though I do – I am still part of his beautiful, wonderful, marvelous creation.

Beautifully, Janet tells us, “But, what I do know is that the moments I have felt the most beautiful are those where mirrors do not exist.”

Something she says got to me, “Trust me, finding the real, true, inner beauty is worth the harrowing journey.”

She tells a story of a woman in a black bikini, “Secretly I wanted her to reveal some flaw–in appearance or in character–so that I could feel better about myself.”

Noemi talks about developing early, “I wanted to run from myself.”

You can listen to Mela’s song in her sidebar and she writes, “I wanted an anthem for girls… that reminds us to guard our minds against all the messages that can beat us down.”

She writes,”Treating others well is beautiful, taking care of our family is beautiful, showing others the love of Jesus is beautiful, and living our lives in a way that is pleasing to God is beautiful.

(I’m still crying from her post) Denise tells the story of George. She says, “But George, a homeless man, was Jesus with skin on. And Jesus was beautiful.

She talks about beauty: “It’s not always the ‘pretty’ things.”

Lindsey talks about beauty,  “…Beauty is a pure, clean heart. Beauty  is one that is surrendered to God and knows how much He loves her.”

She writes, “It’s so simple, really. I feel beautiful when I am not striving  to be beautiful.

Gitz writes from the vantage point of illness. She finds beauty in heart change and in adjusting to life with a different appearance as a result of medication.

I love that Chrissy says that “mere mortals” may not give her a “second glance. But God does.”

Prudence writes, “I may …never think of myself as fancy, but [my husband] does and that makes all the difference in the world and makes me feel loved and beautiful.”

Cari writes, “Beauty isn’t about having it all together. It’s about being brave enough to show the cracks to the world and let God shine His light through them

She talks about beauty, “Submitting my heart (sometimes over and over again each day) to the One who created it.”

I love what Mel did: “I took the list of all my flaws and threw it out the window. ”

Mandy talks about the mirror, Italian women and her own daughter’s beauty after an accident. She says,  “I leaned hard into God to help me find [beauty] — for her, for me.”

She writes, “Beauty is in the letting go. Beauty is in hoping.”

I love what she says, “When you find beauty in everyday things, you find God.”

  • Janet from Janet Oberholtzer: Beauty

Janet writes, “I would rather seek soul-deep wisdom than skin-deep beauty.”

She talks about beauty being brokenness. “God has broken me. I’m not capable. I’m not self-sufficient. I’m not independent. I’m not strong.”

With a smile (it seems) she compares the end of her pregnancy with beauty, “In the end, I’m grateful for the baby steps. For time to let the anticipation build, and to be really proud of finishing something that wasn’t easy.”

Mary talks about her 5th grade self and says even though her husband calls her beautiful and her mother calls her “Beautiful Baby Girl“, in her heart she’s still “that ugly duckling and will never be a swan.”

  • Mandi from Overflow of a Hart: Beauty

She shares in several short posts how 3 different women have shaped her ideas of beauty. She says, “It’s the beauty on the inside shining through that makes someone a truly beautiful person.

She writes, “He has taken all of the ugly moments in my life- physically, spiritually, emotionally, and draped them in his beauty that pours out from the cross.”

She writes about high school: “looking back, though, at that young age, i knew me. i liked me. i was happy. And i think that’s pretty beautiful”

  • Colleen from Adventures of a Small Town Girl: Beauty

Colleen reminds us that we are all beautiful and that God gave us Beauty “in place of ashes. He wants us to own it, to rejoice in it, and in Him.”

Sara writes, “But there IS a beauty that can only be found in brokenness. A beauty that has the chance to be seen… if only we’ll let it.”

Read Kati’s beautiful poem about beauty and letting the “masks fall off“.

I love the story Linda tells about beauty, “As much as the infommercials tell me that I can be flawless and airbrushed, toned and tanned, I am a flawed person.”

She says, “Therefore He takes the pieces that fit my life and fashions them to one day display my own Mosaic...”

Read Claresa’s head-on confrontation to beauty in the form of a letter (very creative!)

Here are the ones that were emailed to me. If I’ve left you off somehow, email me right away and I will get your link up.

What has this week helped you learn about yourself?

18 Responses to “YOUR Beauty”

  1. Shanyn says:

    Amazing…thanks for the blessing of this, and all the words shared and hearts opened…

  2. Mandy says:

    Sarah, Thanks so much for doing this! Writing the post, as well as reading through the others, is almost therapeutic. You are precious, my beautiful friend!! :)

  3. Wow! So many wonderful blogs! I can’t wait to go through each one :D

    • Sarah Markley says:

      i know. i’ve read them all once at least over the weekend and now i’m going thru and commenting. =)

  4. Thanks for doing this! I’m looking forward to looking through them! :)

  5. I’m looking forward to reading through all of these…is it naptime yet? :)

  6. Linda Z says:

    Hi Sarah,

    I emailed last week, but maybe it didn’t get through. Here’s my link: http://thoughtsonthesethings.blogspot.com/2010/03/beauty-marked.html

    Thanks for all the beautiful stories and the challenge to write my own. :)

  7. Prudence says:

    Can’t wait to read through these. Thanks again Sarah for challenging us.

  8. Paige says:

    Wow! I am amazed and haven’t even started reading all of them yet. Kathleen (“Dwell in Life”) is a very dear friend and featured in this segment. It is great! Go girls!

  9. Julie Todd says:

    Sarah, I did not get my post until Saturday. If you want to post it you can, but you don’t have to. Here’s the link if you should desire to post it:
    http://jewelsightings.blogspot.com/2010/03/mosaic-in-making.html

    I’ve enjoyed reading all the posts on beauty. Great idea!

  10. patricia says:

    thank you for posting these stories. i’ve read through some of them and will continue to read the rest of them.

    women writing about their struggles exposes the lies and tools that the enemy is using to attack God’s daughters.

    our testimonies and stories are so powerful….so ladies, keep on writing, keep on sharing…because your life is His Word in action… and it gives hope to others and leads other women into the arms of our Father.

  11. Traci says:

    I can’t wait to check all these posts! Thanks for sharing them in this format, Sarah! (thanks for adding mine) You’re a gem!

    Hugs,
    Traci

  12. OneGirl says:

    I’m looking forward to reading through them all. Thanks Sarah! :)

  13. Kathleen says:

    So grateful that you posted this challenge and that I took it. Thank you for the inspiration and for getting us ladies to look deeply into ourselves and have the power to share it.

  14. As I’ve spent the day reading the writing of all these amazing, gifted women I’ve been amazed at how similar our struggle is with beauty, how we see ourselves, jealousy, and a longing to recognize God’s heart for us. For me this has been an eye opening journey of sisterhood as we’ve explored what beauty truly means. Thank you.

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